Your Questions About If You Choose To Pull The Trigger

July 30, 2013
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Laura asks…

What to do about a crazy muslim family?

when i mean marriage i mean an arrange marriage, for the white ppl: arranged marraige isnt necessarily a forced marriage…ur family picks sum1 for u meet them SUPERVISED by ur/his family, and in a week or 2ish u have to decide if u want to get married………………….& u rnt allowed to choose ur life partner on ur own…no dating…..so it still sucks

but yea back to my ?, parents like this (this is a previous ? u can answer it seperately if u want to cuz yea i posted this twice cuz i dont have any1 to vent to):im hardly allowed to do anything other kids my age are allowed to do, (i dont mean just hanging out i mean EVERYTHING….like even traveling alone and a lot of teenagers have done that…or even taking a walk alone in the daytime in my SAFE neighborhood, my dad will even freak out if i step out of the house for 2 seconds)

if i am allowed to hang out w/o there being a big deal i can only hang out w/ the other indian kids in the community & we’re not even that good friends!……my family doesnt understand the concept of an american social life…instead i HAVE TO spend every weekend/weekday w/ them or im selfish

the onle thing i am allowed and HAVE to do is go to my grandma’s house everyday for dinner….u know the whole joint family thing where you have to hang out w/ family, family and only family!

i hate arranged marriages and ill regret it if i never get to be independent in my life BUT im seriously considering it now…and asap like @ 20 (cant go to a university not doing good enough…tried tho so dont say tht)

but still im ****** depspe
40 minutes ago – 1 week left to answer.
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38 minutes ago

rate? i know i cant ever move out on my own not only am i not allowed to but my bastarddad is a psyco! he controlled my mom even after they serpearetd (shes bak) and when he cant control some1 he gets mad!…….and i mean scary as **** mad (bad childhood 4 me)

so yea shud i just get an arranged marriage & live w/ it? thnx 4 every1 who listened
16 hours ago – 1 week left to answer.
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16 hours ago

wth do i do?? i relly want to b ‘free’ but not married??
1 day ago – 2 days left to answer.
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1 day ago

& it was worse 2day cuz im visitin d.c. and i went to george town and saw a bunch of college students dressed like they were goin to a club and screaming out a limo and partying on boats…..& i thot tht is NEVER going to b me…& 4get college i screwed myself over in hs & now im gonna hav to go to comm college

& the sad thing is if i do get an arranged marriage my condition is no kids…i dont wanna have kids or sex w/ sum1 who im not comfortable w/ so tht mite make an arranged marriage impossible to an indian muslim man…..wut do i do?

24 minutes ago – 1 week left to answer.
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21 minutes ago

and plz dont say move out when ur 18 tht makes me feel worse! im a dtis and i only dont say tht so yea i could never handle or understand financial **** AND my dad has a huge scary temper…..lets just say he mite pull the trigger if he had one idk if he wud but im just telling u tht option is out……i hate my family and culture!
19 minutes ago

and yea can u also answer my ? about the indian muslim man thing thnx guys
18 minutes ago

the sex part i mean

& i think im sumtimes goin thru (depending on my dads mood tht day) mental abuse (its 1 of my ?s if u wanna know bout it) mental abuse so i have to get married i dont wanna live here anymore

admin answers:

Look; Tell your parent that you want to get married. But you want to focus on your education first; that you wont be able to balance a family life with going to school. Once you’ve gone to a community college; if you do well you can transfer to a university. Or even if you just get a degree in community college to can get a good job and move away.

Helen asks…

Do you have strict Muslim/Indian parents like mine?

when i mean marriage i mean an arrange marriage, for the white ppl: arranged marraige isnt necessarily a forced marriage…ur family picks sum1 for u meet them SUPERVISED by ur/his family, and in a week or 2ish u have to decide if u want to get married………………….& u rnt allowed to choose ur life partner on ur own…no dating…..so it still sucks

but yea back to my ?, parents like this (this is a previous ? u can answer it seperately if u want to cuz yea i posted this twice cuz i dont have any1 to vent to):im hardly allowed to do anything other kids my age are allowed to do, (i dont mean just hanging out i mean EVERYTHING….like even traveling alone and a lot of teenagers have done that…or even taking a walk alone in the daytime in my SAFE neighborhood, my dad will even freak out if i step out of the house for 2 seconds)

if i am allowed to hang out w/o there being a big deal i can only hang out w/ the other indian kids in the community & we’re not even that good friends!……my family doesnt understand the concept of an american social life…instead i HAVE TO spend every weekend/weekday w/ them or im selfish

the onle thing i am allowed and HAVE to do is go to my grandma’s house everyday for dinner….u know the whole joint family thing where you have to hang out w/ family, family and only family!

i hate arranged marriages and ill regret it if i never get to be independent in my life BUT im seriously considering it now…and asap like @ 20 (cant go to a university not doing good enough…tried tho so dont say tht)

but still im ****** depspe
40 minutes ago – 1 week left to answer.
Additional Details
38 minutes ago

rate? i know i cant ever move out on my own not only am i not allowed to but my bastarddad is a psyco! he controlled my mom even after they serpearetd (shes bak) and when he cant control some1 he gets mad!…….and i mean scary as **** mad (bad childhood 4 me)

so yea shud i just get an arranged marriage & live w/ it? thnx 4 every1 who listened
16 hours ago – 1 week left to answer.
Additional Details
16 hours ago

wth do i do?? i relly want to b ‘free’ but not married??
1 day ago – 2 days left to answer.
Additional Details
1 day ago

& it was worse 2day cuz im visitin d.c. and i went to george town and saw a bunch of college students dressed like they were goin to a club and screaming out a limo and partying on boats…..& i thot tht is NEVER going to b me…& 4get college i screwed myself over in hs & now im gonna hav to go to comm college

& the sad thing is if i do get an arranged marriage my condition is no kids…i dont wanna have kids or sex w/ sum1 who im not comfortable w/ so tht mite make an arranged marriage impossible to an indian muslim man…..wut do i do?

24 minutes ago – 1 week left to answer.
Additional Details
21 minutes ago

and plz dont say move out when ur 18 tht makes me feel worse! im a dtis and i only dont say tht so yea i could never handle or understand financial **** AND my dad has a huge scary temper…..lets just say he mite pull the trigger if he had one idk if he wud but im just telling u tht option is out……i hate my family and culture!
19 minutes ago

and yea can u also answer my ? about the indian muslim man thing thnx guys
18 minutes ago

the sex part i mean

this is more about the marriage thing thnx: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Avc8rIzuObfEtOgGBx7tGALty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090307090506AAzDuK4

admin answers:

No, i dont have strict parents well none of my other asian friends have strict parents too. So i guess its just the few who do maybe its not the culture its just the parents. And the term for arrange marriage is when you see someone you think you’d like to be commited to and you tell your parents and ask them to plan it for you.

Carol asks…

I have wrote a song can anyone tell me if they think its good or not?

Soldiers take it in their stride

What am I doing (pause) in this place its taking its toll on me
Thinking of leaving but that’s not an option for someone like me
Nowhere to run (pause) just stop (pause) and fight like a man.
Charge the enemy give them hell, that’s right its quitting time

Get shot at, beat up, frozen in time
Getting shot is part of the job
Gashes and slashes with pain on the way
Soldiers take it in their stride
Suck up and get on with your life

Finished with learning, I’m ready; let’s do this, I haven’t got all night
What are you waiting for, there’s someone there, I’ve got him in my sight
Pull the trigger back, head shot smack, but why am I sitting on the fence
Just do it (pause) kill him (pause) or does he deserve another chance at life
Live or die it’s easy to choose, don’t forget your handbag with your shoes.

Get shot at, beat up, frozen in time
Getting shot is part of the job
Gashes and slashes with pain on the way
Soldiers take it in their stride
Suck up and get on with your life

Getting darker (pause) light is fading (pause) heaven’s gate is on its way
Reservation with your name, on the table with your mate, don’t give up it’s not too late
Darkness fading (pause) light is shining (pause) family crying (pause) and it’s good to be alive
Second chance is all I need, reconcile with my own creed; deal is done and signed the deed

Get shot at, beat up, frozen in time
Getting shot is part of the job
Gashes and slashes with pain on the way
Soldiers take it in their stride
Suck up and get on with your life
It is not a rap song,the finished with learning line means that he has finished with a army course or whatever there called lol

thanks for your comments

admin answers:

Honestly The Lyrics Are Amazing And Meaningful But If You Were To Record It,That Song Won’t Be a Hit,I Mean Nowadays No One Wants To Hear Anything Intelligent,Like This Song,But That’s Just The Way You Get a Hit,I Love Your Song But Try Substituting Some Of Those Big Words If You Know What I Mean But As I Said Before Your Song Is Wonderful And Meaningful

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