
Steven asks…
I can’t sit still?? is there something wrong with me?
I ALWAYS need to be doing something active.. I can never sit down for a long period of time
when I do I immediately feel like I’m getting fat and my muscles are going to get flabby..
even when I’m psychically exhausted, I still feel like I need to do some sort of exercise..
Like right now..I’ve been out in the sun walking around all afternoon.. and early this morning I went to the gym to work out for and hour and 15 minutes..I have a headache and my eyes are tired.. But my body NEEDS to move..I feel soo lazy right now..
and I’m so upset because I won’t be able to exercise much at the gym this week because I will be super busy..I have this thought in my head that my muscles will get smaller and I will be flabby..
do I have some kind of problem?
admin answers:
Sometimes I have that problem too but hey they say it’s an obsession of some sort so I guess think it over and give yourself some rest don’t worry about them muscles they want it too

Donna asks…
Why do girls expect us guys to be perfect?
I’m in my early twenties and I’m single.I’m average looking but have no job at the moment.Now I’m not lazy nor am I a”loser” but I just can’t find a job yet.I’m educated (have an associate degree) and Planing to get a bachelors soon.I’m a decent guy and have lots of friends so this must mean I have a good personality.I exercise and have healthy hobbies.I have a slim/Athletic build, Hazel eyes, curly dirty blonde hair and am about 5’9″.
Girl will never look my way still.I know friends who have a Great car, terrific jobs etc and they are about the same in looks as I am and they are never single.The only reason I’m so far behind is because my parent never lended me a hand for college or anything like that so I had to do everything myself and this is much harder.
Girls are always talking”I want a guy with X car” “I want a guy who is 6 feet tall”"I want a guy with xxxx and x”and the list is endeless..So being a good catch why am I having so much trouble? and why do women want men to be perfect?
admin answers:
For starters, why would a girl choose to be with an unemployed twenty-something guy when she can be with someone who is obviously successful? Girls do not want the perfect man – at least not your definition of “perfect”. What girls want is a successful man – a man with drive and at least potential for success.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but you have nothing to back your statement that you are a “good catch”. I’m not saying that you are a failure, but what have you got to show to a girl that she is not dating a deadbeat?
As for why girls want what they want, have you never ponder how human beings and human society have evolved to this point in time? Ever heard of “survival of the fittest”? Girls are looking for mates whether they are conscious of it or not. Those who pick men who are successful have a higher chance that their children will have a better chance of survival. Girls who pick poor slobs usually end up poor and their children suffer. Not meaning to be harsh, but does this sound familiar – have you looked in the mirror? In pre-modern times, those children usually die from starvation, get sold off as slaves, indentured servants, or are even deliberately killed.
Want a girlfriend? Show that you have at the very least the potential for success.

Ken asks…
Why won’t my body help me?
i am 21/yo 5’2 tall & weigh 165 lbs, i am obese for my weight, i used to eat only junk food, so i started eating healthy, cut sodas, fried food, sweets… which made me feel stronger and also more active, i was not a lazy person, i always jog (for about 10-15 minutes aday) it is the first thing i do in the morning since i was little & sometimes swim… but recently because i am trying to lose weigh i wanted to add up to my exercise & make it more fun, so i decided with my friends to jog together for 30 minutes a day & this plan has been going for a while now…
the problem is i cant keep up with this exercise, after only 5 minutes i start having this annoying headache behind my eyes & also this killer pain at my neck & shoulders, i dont have any trouble breathing, i can talk while running & my legs are fast & strong & never hurt…
what should i do? it is so annoying i want to run further & i am enjoying it, but this stupid pain is keeping me.
admin answers:
Ok. I am 26 and weigh 172 lbs and I’m solid. When I was 21 I weighed 220 of fat and I mean I got so fat I had stretch marks like a pregnant women. When I first started exercising I would run a quarter mile and not be able to walk the next day. You just can’t give up. If you can only work out for 5 minutes that’s fine. But next week try for 5 and a half minutes and ad a half a minute a week. Just keep moving forward and you will see it working. Just remember you didn’t put the weight on in 6 months. It’s not gona cone off in Six months. It’s gona long and hard but with it. Before you know it two years will go by and you will look great. Remember no struggle no progress.
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